Tuesday, March 02, 2010

More Music Critique

Right, so 'The Bag' continues. I am past the halfway mark. So picture the knit a bit bigger than the last post :)

At the risk of appearing 'old-fogy-ish' Rihanna's current song 'Hard' is pushing several of my buttons.

Button the first: Bad grammer.

They can say whatever
I'ma do whatever
No pain is forever
Yup, you know this


I'ma???!!! I'll let the 'yup' go, but I'ma???!

Which leads to weird slang that is not particulary clear:

Trying to sell they peeping my bag they can't afford it


Then there's the Madonna vs whore problem:

Sincere, I see you aiming at my pedestal
I betta let ya' know


Putting a woman on a pedestal means appreciating her for qualities other than her personality. Such as her virginity or 'pureness'. Argh. This kind of reference really makes me irritable. If sex for a male isn't 'dirty', then sex for a female isn't either. End of discussion. This sort of unthinking use of a sterotypical phrase shows how little people actually think about what they are saying and the behaviour patterns it subtly reinforces.

Rihanna is trying to say that the nasty things people are saying about her don't hurt her because she is 'hard'. As in donning her armour. At least, that is my take on it. So that would make her empowered. However, the pedestal phrase disempowers her. I wonder if she even thought about it. Probably not.

So, I applaud Rihanna for trying to find her way after that terrible relationship, but I don't think she has quite found her way out yet.

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Don't feel fogey! I haven't even HEARD these songs!
I have enough issues with pop and rap lyrics. I'm all for freedom of expression, but really, do we need to be derogatory to ourselves and others? Really? I'm sure my kid will bring a lot of this into the house, but for now, he's developing a taste for Classic Rock, thanks to his parents.
I think we must consider the possibility that Rihanna's lyrics suggest who she really is and that who she is led to many of her problems. I drilled it into my girls that if they know who they are and respect themselves they will not want to associate with unsavory sorts. When I hear her songs on radio or TV I always think, "How sad." She is such a lovely young woman! It makes me want to take her home and give her one of my lectures on self respect. My daughters would laugh at that! I am definitely an old fogey!!
Does she even know it's so sad.

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